A break up is hard, especially when you were truly in love. Whether he was the one to dump you or you dumped him, sometimes you can't help but miss him.
If you miss your ex, he may still come back. Here are some reasons why your ex boyfriend might come back after the break up.
A post shared by Maryam magicmarstore on Feb 22, at 8: One of the main reasons he might come back after the break up is that his life just isn't the same without you.
He thought he had to dump you to better his life, but it ended up making him miss you even more. He won't realize he still loves you until something makes him laugh and he can't share it with you. This reason is going to be even stronger if you've cut off all contact with your ex.
Sometimes it's better not to still talk to your ex after you've broken up, but it can also make you and your ex realize how much you miss each other.
When you can't be in contact at all, it's easy to find your life missing the love you had before. If he feels like his life isn't as good now as it was when you were in it, he may change his mind about the break up and try to come back. He may also want to come back after the break up if he finds that his life is not as fulfilling without you in it. When this happens, he will see that the love you had for each other was strong and the he wouldn't miss you so much if you were together again.
Sometimes life is better together, and once he realizes that, he'll want to come back. Sometimes it takes space to develop yourself into a better person.
Maybe all it took was being dumped for your boyfriend to change his ways. If he wants to come back after the break up, it may be because he's a different person than he was when you were in love.
This is especially true if the break up happened because something about your ex made it hard to love him and even harder to miss him. He likely realized when you were apart that he had to change himself for the better in order for you to let him come back into your life.
This could be something physical, like losing weight or changing his hair style, or something emotional, like seeking help for emotional issues or learning to talk about his feelings rather than letting it stew. If he has gone to great lengths to better himself, he will probably want to end the break up and come back.
If your ex boyfriend tries to contact you after the break up, this will likely be one of the main reasons. He probably misses you enough to become a better person after you dumped him. On the other side, maybe your ex wants to come back after the break up because he sees that you have become a different girl than you were when you were dating.
He might contact you if he sees positive changes in you because it reminds him how much he misses and loves you. Like with the changes in him, the changes in you can be physical or emotional. There are times when it takes a dumping to show you the parts of you that you don't always like.
Maybe you think you should eat healthier and exercise to become a healthier person physically. Or maybe you want to see a therapist or talk with friends more to free your mind mentally. When your ex sees that you have put in effort to better yourself, he's definitely going to miss you and try to come back.
It might also inspire him to put in the effort to better himself so that if he does come back after the break up, you're open to trying again. Regret is the biggest reason your ex will want to come back after the break up. It is usually a combination of everything else on this list that makes him regret ever dumping you or that makes him wish you hadn't dumped him.
He'll try to contact you to tell you that he wishes the break up never happened and he wants to come back. Regret is a hard thing to handle, and while it might be the most likely reason for him to want to come back after the break up, it's probably the worst one, too.